I honestly did. What I felt, and yearned for in sex, was what I assumed everyone did.
Over the years I have been proved wrong. I do not have an outstanding fetish(in my mind), all I want in bed, is the please the woman I am with. Simple?
Over my life I have learned that penetrative sex, is not the gateway to female orgasm. It is all about touch, caress, intimacy, and if your realtionship includes this, love.
This makes sense to me, we, as genders strive, and quest for different things.
What baffles me is that women, in 2022, still have some crazy hang-ups about sex, esp in regards to how their own bodies are dirty.
How can I, relate to a partner who feels shame in who they are/what they have/and the need for physical joy?
I hate emoji's so lets end this with...
*confused face*