The husband and I have recently started dabbling in the bdsm lifestyle. We have finally gotten him a nice fitting cage, the unfortunate side is I am a newbie to it and am trying to think of phrases to say (neither of us are into sissification or total humiliation like telling him his dick is pathedic) and things to do to get the most out of all of this. So what do you think are some things I can say or do to help move me down the road to dominating him as we are both hoping.
Ideas would be helpful. Please and thank you <3